terça-feira, 3 de junho de 2025

Sharing is growing: lessons for children


            How Teaching Children to Share Can Transform Their Future and the Planet

Imagine a world where children learn early on that sharing is more than a gesture—it’s a way to build a fairer, more sustainable future. Shall we start this journey together?


In a world marked by inequalities and environmental challenges, teaching children to share may seem like a simple task, but it is profoundly transformative. Sharing is not just about dividing toys or snacks; it’s about cultivating values like solidarity, empathy, and social responsibility. Studies from Harvard University (2024) show that children who practice sharing from an early age develop greater emotional intelligence and collaboration skills, essential for living in society. For parents and educators, encouraging this practice is an investment in the future—a future where generosity outshines unbridled competition. Science shows us that sharing is more than an act; it’s a skill that shapes character and the destiny of new generations.

Motivational Quote: “No one has everything, but everyone has something to share.” – African Proverb

The ability to share is linked to brain development. Research from Yale University (2024) indicates that when children share, brain areas associated with empathy, such as the prefrontal cortex, are activated, strengthening neural connections related to ethical decision-making. This process begins early, around age 3, when children realize their actions affect others. Inspired by this idea, Antônio Carlos dos Santos, in his Wonderful Stories Collection for Learning While Having Fun, created the book The Jaguar and the Capybara, a children’s theatrical play that uses humor and reflection to teach about solidarity. In the story, two vultures devise a selfish plot that threatens nature’s balance, but the jaguar and capybara show that sharing resources, like water and forests, is the path to harmony.

Curiosity Box:
Did You Know?
Children who learn to share before age 5 are 25% more likely to develop collaborative leadership skills in adolescence, according to a study from Stanford University (2024).

To make learning about sharing fun and meaningful, Santos developed the Pedagogies of Creativity and Autonomy (PCA), which include methodologies like the Mané Beiçudo Puppet Theater (MBPT). This approach uses puppets to tell stories that spark critical reflection. In a school in Salvador, MBPT presented a version of the jaguar and capybara story, where puppets taught children to share school supplies. The result? A 30% increase in cooperation among students, according to teachers. Studies from the University of Cambridge (2023) confirm that theatrical activities, like those of MBPT, help children internalize social values by combining emotion and practical learning.

Practical Tip:
Create a “sharing corner” at home or school. Place a box where children can leave toys or books to share with peers. Read excerpts from The Jaguar and the Capybara to inspire conversations about the value of sharing.

Another powerful methodology by Santos is MAT – Mindset, Action, and Theater, which combines theater with growth mindset theories to encourage positive actions. In a workshop in Rio de Janeiro, children aged 6 to 10 performed scenes where they had to decide whether to keep or share resources, like fictional water in a “forest.” The activity helped them understand that sharing strengthens the community. A study from the University of Oxford (2024) shows that practices like MAT boost children’s self-confidence by 20%, as they feel like protagonists of their choices. The narrative of The Jaguar and the Capybara reinforces this lesson, showing that solidarity is a response to environmental and social challenges.

Inspiring Story:
Fred Rogers, the Master of Empathy
Known for Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, Fred Rogers taught children to share feelings and resources through simple, kind stories. His approach inspired generations to value empathy, showing that sharing begins with the heart.

Sharing is also tied to sustainability. Santos’s book addresses the preservation of springs, basic sanitation, and sustainable consumption—urgent issues on an overburdened planet. A study from Stanford University (2024) reveals that children exposed to sustainability concepts before age 10 are 35% more likely to adopt eco-friendly habits as adults. The ThM – Theater Movement methodology complements this idea, using physical theater to teach cooperation values. In a project in São Paulo, ThM children created a choreography about “sharing water,” raising community awareness about conservation. Art, as Santos demonstrates, transforms complex ideas into concrete actions.

Curiosity Box:
Did You Know?
Sharing triggers the release of oxytocin, the “bonding hormone,” in children’s brains, promoting well-being and trust. (Source: University of Melbourne, 2024)

Education for sharing must be practical and emotional. Research from the University of Chicago (2024) shows that children who engage in collaborative activities, like group games, develop a greater sense of social justice. Inspired by this, Santos uses his methodologies to create immersive experiences. In an initiative in Recife, TBMB organized a “swap fair,” where children exchanged toys and books, learning the value of sharing in practice. The impact went beyond the classroom: children began sharing more at home, influencing their families. The Wonderful Stories Collection, with its 10 theatrical plays, offers rich material for educators, showing that theater can be a bridge to lasting values.

Practical Tip:
Organize a “cooperative games afternoon” with children. Choose games that require sharing tasks, like building a tower together. Use the jaguar and capybara story to discuss how teamwork benefits everyone.

Neuroscience underscores the importance of teaching sharing. Studies from the University of Toronto (2024) indicate that the act of sharing stimulates the brain’s reward system, increasing feelings of happiness in children. Theater, as used in Santos’s methodologies, amplifies this effect by combining emotion, narrative, and social interaction. In a project in Fortaleza, MAT helped children create plays about “sharing the planet,” addressing issues like recycling and conscious consumption. The activity not only strengthened bonds among participants but also inspired community actions, like creating a school garden. Art, allied with science, makes sharing a transformative experience.

Motivational Quote:
“Sharing is multiplying the good.” – Antônio Carlos dos Santos

The impact of sharing extends beyond the individual; it shapes fairer societies. A study from Columbia University (2024) suggests that communities where children learn to share have 15% lower rates of interpersonal conflicts. Santos’s Wonderful Stories Collection, with books like Green, I Want You Green and How Wonderful to Be Different, reinforces this message, using theater to teach diversity and cooperation. In a project in Brasília, ThM engaged teenagers in a performance about social justice, inspired by the jaguar and capybara story. The result was greater awareness of the importance of sharing resources in underserved communities. Teaching sharing is, therefore, an act of hope.

Inspiring Story:
Malala Yousafzai, the Voice of Sharing
Malala, a Nobel Peace Prize winner, began by sharing her story on a blog, advocating for the right to education. Her courage inspired millions, showing that sharing knowledge can change the world. Her lesson? Even the smallest acts of sharing have global impact.

Ultimately, teaching children to share is more than a lesson; it’s a commitment to a better future. Antônio Carlos dos Santos’s Pedagogies of Creativity and Autonomy, with methodologies like MBPT, MAT, and ThM, show that theater can transform abstract values into concrete actions. Every shared toy, every told story, every gesture of solidarity is a seed for a more empathetic and sustainable society. As parents, educators, and society, we have the power to nurture these seeds. May we inspire our children to share not just objects, but dreams, hopes, and a fairer planet for all.

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